This is what I’ve been saying for years.
Nobody’s sleeping with the enemy these days.
“If I see somebody who’s like, ‘I’m moderate or conservative,’ I keep swiping,” Bronx resident Nadine Anglesey tells The Post. The 33-year-old art director hasn’t dated a conservative since the 2016 election — even if she’s attracted to him. “Yesterday, this one guy [on the dating app Hinge] seemed really great ’til I saw he marked himself as conservative,” she says. “I nipped that in the bud.”
Anglesey’s not alone: Whether red or blue, most millennials would pick their party over the best lay of their life, according to new research.
The number of millennial men and women who prioritize political party alliance over good sex has skyrocketed since 2016, according to data from OkCupid. The matchmaking company surveyed more than 8 million users, and found that interest in dating someone with similar political beliefs has gone up 165 percent since 2004, while having good sex has decreased as a priority 30 percent.
Specifically, between 2016 and 2018, the number of women who consider politics more important than sex shot up from 27 percent to 42 percent, while for men that needle moved from 23 percent to 30 percent.
So what’s the link? Manhattan sex therapist Megan Fleming thinks dating strictly within one’s party is making people comfortable — too comfortable.
“If you’re only exposing yourself to people who think like you, you’re living in a silo and missing out on opportunities,” says Fleming. She believes that less intellectual tension could translate to less of a lustful spark in a relationship. She encourages her patients to get out of their comfort zone — in love and in bed.
That was the case for Julie, a 27-year-old Brooklyn liberal and senior public relations manager who dated a Republican for three years. For the political opposites, Julie says, “Everything was very extreme” — including the sex. After particularly frustrating, politically charged conversations, “We’d have makeup sex” that was “better than normal,” she says.
It wasn’t enough to hold them together, and today Julie — who declined to give her last name for privacy reasons — finds going out with fellow liberals “a breath of fresh air.” But she misses the adventure of being with someone very different from herself. “[We] enjoyed being challenged and challenging each other, and maybe that’s something I’m still looking for,” she says. She’s currently single and open to being with a conservative again, depending on “his beliefs.”
That’s also true on the other side of the aisle. Adam Bandler, a 22-year-old Republican, says a date’s political beliefs are barely even an issue for him. “I don’t really care how someone politically identifies,” says the single NYU student, adding that “political ideology” isn’t something he “necessarily even considers” in a potential mate.
I’ve gone on dates with plenty of women who immediately pulled back when they sensed some conservative, right-wing views being espoused.
This is the tyranny of a female-controlled sexual market. Female privilege in society has granted women the power to be extra choosy about their mate. She can shoot down a male suitor for the most mundane, asinine reasons. If he doesn’t meet some inexhaustible laundry list of ‘preferable qualities,’ which now includes regurgitating shitlib political ideology, that man is tossed aside without a second thought… and on she moves to the next sucker.
Most women have vastly more sexual options than men, which means that they can afford to be more fickle about their mate than men can. As you saw in the article, men care about women’s political beliefs far less than the reverse. That’s partially because men have far fewer dating options than women and thus can’t afford to be so stingy.
Most young white women today are shitlibs who parrot jewish left-wing propaganda from the media. They’ve been thoroughly indoctrinated in school and university. Women are also mostly impervious to logic and are religiously committed to false ideas rammed into their head by wily marxist jews at uni. It would take a miracle worker to deprogram them, hence why right-wing politically active males are effectively screwed in this modern satanic dating environment where shitlib women tyrannize over good white men.
Only by rescinding the societal privileges given to inferior women can this situation be remedied.
You are by all means an attractive looking guy, but goodness are you intimidated by women. I’m guessing you may be from a divorced household where you were stuck with an overbearing mother? (Pardon me if I’m mistaken.) What do you mean men have less options? There are plenty of rather hideous, overweight, insecure, and socially inept women around with less options, too. What do you mean the woman can reject the man for stupid reasons? So can the man. I sometimes get the impression this is a troll site or some weird BDSM site that is playing games.
Your points are logical, but so are Brandon’s: The truth of the matter is that white females are more likely to be liberal, if not extremely liberal, and can and will reject a (white) male for his conservative / republican views. They are the only females to reject their own men for trying to protect their own (western) civilisation. An Arab female would affirm an Arab man who spoke with pride about his legacy, a black woman fights along a black man for their community (as we are seeing now), but white women are ***unique***. Of course men like Brandon, who are fighting to protect their collapsing civilisation, would want to find a woman to carry his legacy by bearing his children. This is not only part of the fight, but absolutely normal, expected human behaviour. So now men like him have to content with 1) white women who just have an attraction towards black/ brown men AND/ OR 2) white women refusing to date him because of him wanting to protect his, no scratch that, THEIR own civilisation.
You are right in the grand scheme of things, this article was from his perspective, but this whole website is meant for men like him, it’s not some sort of *umbrella sociology* website.
My own point of view is that he isn’t intimidated by women at all, he’s an alpha if I ever saw one. I also criticise women a lot, but I am not *intimidated* by them- how can I be intimidated by my own sex, that’s ridiculous.