There’s a pretty simple explanation for why women don’t ask men out on dates or initiate romantic relationships: they’re biological cowards with fragile egos. This article explains it pretty well.
Men, the article notes, are vastly more likely to engage in “risky initiatives” such as asking females out on first dates and then proceeding to advance the interaction sexually by “making moves” like a first kiss or hand-holding.
Virtually no women are willing to take such risks because they’re programmed biologically to be timid and weak, and their egos are so fragile that rejection from one guy will shatter their whole world. Most likely if turned down by a guy, they will quickly spiral into an emotional meltdown and become depressed, whereas men simply brush the dirt off the shoulder and move on to the next hoe.
The most women ever do is give stupid “signals” of interest like glances, smiling, or playing around with hair. These fragile little things just don’t have the balls to ever make the first move, because they fear rejection and seek to protect their inflated egos at all costs, which means they’d rather miss romantic opportunities completely than gamble with rejection.
From the article:
There are two ways to attempt to initiate a romantic relationship: either by making a direct verbal proposal (e.g., “Would you like to go out on a date with me Saturday night?”), or, to display primarily non-verbal signals that indicate interest and receptivity and wait for the other person to do the asking. The first method has been termed a “risky initiative” (Farrell, 1986), the latter nonverbal flirting behaviors are often called “proceptive behaviors” (Moore, 1985; 2002).
… One might think that after decades of increasing equality between the sexes, women might be doing more of the asking. To see if this is the case, I recently conducted a study, along with two of my students, Agata Janiszewska and Leslie Zabala, to check on the frequency that each sex wanted to either be asked out, or wanted to do the asking, and the actual number of times each sex had done so in the last year. We administered an online survey to 87 heterosexuals (31 males, 55 females), most of whom were undergraduate college students (Mills, Janiszewska & Zabala, 2011). Most of the survey participants had been single in the past year, or, if they were in a relationship, they were asked to think back to the last year that they were single.
The first question we asked was whether they preferred to ask someone out, or would rather be asked out on a date.
As noted in the histogram, a great majority of the women, 93%, preferred to be asked out — only 6% perferred to do the asking. The majority of men preferred to do the asking, 83%, while 16% preferred to be asked out on a date. It is interesting that more men preferred to be asked out (16%) than there were women who preferred to do the asking (6%). That difference suggests that 10% of men may be waiting quite a while for a woman to ask them out on a first date.
Preferences are one thing, but what about actual behavior? We asked the survey participants how many times they had asked someone out on a first date in the past year.
As can be seen in the histogram, males reported significantly more instances of asking someone out in the past year. On average males asked four women out on a first date in the past year. In contrast, most females did not ask anyone out on a first date in the past year.
We also asked how many times the survey participants had been asked out on a first date in the past year. On average, males reported that they had been asked out about once. Females reported that, on average, they had been asked out about 5 times.
Men of my generation, who went to college in the 70s and 80s, mostly embraced the goals of the feminist movement. Greater equality, or at least equity, between the sexes seemed fair. And, from a male perspective, there might be some benefits for us as well — including less inhibited female sexuality and the anticipation that women would begin asking us out on first dates. So we waited. And waited… and… we are still waiting!
Yes, despite “equality” women still refuse to “woman up” and become more proactive in this bullshit courting process because they’re cowards and always will be. If a guy “waits” for a girl to make a move, he’ll be waiting an eternity because it’ll never happen – unless he is a famous musician with boatloads of cash, in which case gold digging whores will be lining up outside his tour bus pleading to suck him off.
So the moral of the story is that females love to reject men, and even revel in it with their depraved girlfriends, but hate to be rejected and may even commit suicide if rejected or broken up with.
Most modern women also continue to prefer that men pay on the first date, if not all dates, and will cite “tradition” as the reason, which is just a fancy way of saying they’re selfish whores who use men as a free meal ticket. So they march the streets for feminism and “equality” one day, and the next demand that men pay for everything, because we all know that feminist “equality” is merely a codeword for “female privilege” in society.
This is why men need to stop pampering women, and to call out their double standards on the spot, forcing them to acknowledge their selfish behaviour and correct it, or to get lost. The most I’ll pay on a first date is a coffee or beer, and I’ll tell the chick to get the second round. If she doesn’t, I’ll ditch her quicker than a fat kid can down a piece of chocolate cake.
Oh but wait a minute dude, you can’t be taking that tone with this type of behavior, you see, being stern or annoyed with this type of silliness isn’t “alpha.” Yeah, that’s right. I mean they can’t help it, would you get mad at a dog for barking bro? Ya just gotta read signals and “be alpha” bruh.
-generic PUA blogger
Right, of course they would say that since they’re selling a product. I still do daygame cold approach to pick up women, maybe once a week, so those dudes would be barking at the wrong dude. Even though I find women and their ways annoying, I still know that the only way I can get laid is by making approaches/moves, etc., because they’re not going to ever approach me due to their innate cowardice. Doesn’t mean I can’t criticize female behaviour at the same time.
No doubt. So-called “game” is real and necessary (to a certain extent, without getting stupid about it like PUAs), but you are right to understand that you can criticized their behavior and point out innate weaknesses. I think that is where you differ from the ‘rest,’ who find it a sacred cow to criticize such nonsense. They bend over backwards avoiding it.
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I’m a black 25-year-old in New Tampa. I live with my immediate family. Or live with my parents and my two younger teenage sisters. I was born on Sunday, September 5, 1993. My father was born on Monday, August 6, 1973.
I like the alternative right or alt-right. I like a political movement originating on soxial media and online forums, and it’s composed of a segment of conservatives who support extreme right-wing ideologies, such as white nationalism and anti-Semitism. I don’t perceive them as extreme or different from what most people would accept as reasonable or normal. I see them as reasonable and normal. I see them as usual and ordinary.
I don’t dislike or like the entirety of any race. There are bad people and good people in all races. I think that the highest number of bad people is in the Jewish race. I just think that there is the highest number of good people in the white race. You’re doing a disservice to humanity if you don’t make more white babies, and you don’t even have to be white for that. You are harmful or injurious to all the people in the world if you don’t create more white babies.
I don’t like or trust Wikipedia. It labels organizations and people as white supremacist. I don’t think that they know what that word means. You are essentially saying that you want white people to be dominant over people of other races. In the past people like that existed. People like that don’t exist today.
I’m single and I’m a virgin. I never ever dated or married. I want to have white children. I want to have them through adoption and surrogacy once day. It was white people that built modern civiliation and modern society. It’s like that Columbia University student Julian said in his rant.
White people should be revered or regarded with feelings of great respect or reverence. They are like gods among us. They are like God or the creator and ruler of the world. Instead our society is so blind as to revel or take delight in our own destruction and ignorace. It’s an objective fact that the white race is better or even superior.
You are 95% correct about the alt-right. The 5% on which you are wrong though is that not all of us support “extreme right wing ideologies”, a lot of “alt-right” is made up of philosemites (unfortunately). Some of us are not conservatives either. For example, I wouldn’t classify myself as conservative AT ALL. I am pro-white and I also think that cannabis legalization is a great thing.
What unites us is not “politics” in the traditional sense (right-left etc), but politics in the Ancient sense. We agree on how we should run our societies. We don’t want invaders, and we don’t want our society to fall apart from within (Female Question, JQ, etc etc).
Every race is full of idiots, conmen, fraudsters, thieves, violent people etc. We just prefer to preserve the white race because it’s ours, and we would want to preserve it even if it was the ugliest race. It’s simply us. Thankfuly for us, it is probably the most intelligent and creative race. Intelligence and Creativity produces great liars and fraudsters too… but in any case.
We are not saying that we want to dominate other people. Wiki is saying that about us. I, personally, don’t want the white race to dominate ANYONE. And that’s one of the reasons I am against mideast meddling and killing innocent arabs.
Don’t over-romanticize whites. We are weak at this point in history. White doesn’t equate to honorable and good.
Yeah… keep romanticizing whites and see where it gets you… No man, that’s foolish. Wake up. Whites are not gods. Half of our population is garbage (women). 80% of our men are cowards. 90% of our men are being dominated by sexual desires and give free passes to any white whore around.
I wish I could edit my comment. I misspelled “social” in it. I like the alt-right. I like a political movement originating on social media and online forums. I probably overromanticize whites because I’m not white, and I really like white women.
I’m banned from Metropolitan Ministries because I said that I thought about killing my father once when I was there. There’s a bald and blue-eyed white man named Peter Bates that enforces my staying off that campus. They said in an email that I’m better suited for other locations. I’m not even allowed on that campus there at Metropolitan Ministries. I promised to never kill or physically harm anyone one day.
I got a restraining order from Tampa Bay Presbyterian Church. I last spoke to a blonde-haired and blue-eyed white woman named Melissa from there on my cellphone. I got a restraining order from a black-haired and blue-eyed white woman named Lovely Young. I last talked to her for over an hour on my phone. I got two restraining orders from white women this year. It’s made me somewhat suicidal.
I now know that white people suck sometimes. I hate being banned and receiving restraining orders from white people. That’s my life now. I’m ready to overdose on sleeping pills. I wish that there were cyanide pills or suicide pills. Sleeping pills are the closest thing to suicide pills.